{"id":648,"date":"2012-02-23T14:28:16","date_gmt":"2012-02-23T19:28:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nationalcomponent.com\/press\/?p=648"},"modified":"2012-02-23T14:28:16","modified_gmt":"2012-02-23T19:28:16","slug":"a-day-of-heartbreak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.unesen.ca\/press\/?p=648","title":{"rendered":"A day of heartbreak"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-649\" src=\"http:\/\/www.une-sen.org\/press\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/feb14.jpg\" alt=\"A day of heartbreak\" width=\"541\" height=\"360\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.unesen.ca\/press\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/feb14.jpg 541w, https:\/\/www.unesen.ca\/press\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/feb14-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 541px) 100vw, 541px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Each year on Valentine\u2019s Day, people smile, hug and greet each other with a joyful \u201cHappy Valentine\u2019s Day!\u201d \u2014 for others,\u00a0it\u2019s a day of heartbreak.\u00a0 For them, February 14 is a day to commemorate their lost loved ones and take part in memorial marches across Canada.<\/p>\n<p>This year marks the 21st Women\u2019s Memorial March through the Vancouver Downtown Eastside, an area where many First Nations women have fallen victim to violence. Nationwide, there are over 600 women on the Native Women&#8217;s Association of Canada&#8217;s missing or murdered list.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIn January 1991, a woman was murdered on Powell Street. Her name is not spoken today, respecting the wishes of her family. Her death was the catalyst to move women to take action leading to this special Valentine\u2019s Day March,\u201d wrote organizers of the march at the Carnegie Community Centre.<\/p>\n<p>Unlike last year\u2019s rainy day, our members were fortunate to have some great weather. I was pleased to be joined by sisters from the UNE BC Region, along with sisters and brothers from the PSAC Vancouver Regional Office, the PSAC Women\u2019s Committee, the PSAC Human Rights Committee and other grassroots organizations.<\/p>\n<p>When we first arrived, we were greeted by a First Nations sister who gave each of us a beautifully decorated card. Each card had a unique proverb honouring the murdered women. Mine read, in part, \u201cdeath leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Before the march started, we gathered inside the Carnegie Community Centre Theatre, where families of the missing and murdered women shared their stories. The speakers showed tremendous strength as they did so. Someone said, \u201cour loved ones are in a better place; they don\u2019t have to suffer anymore. They may be looking at us, from wherever they are, and wanting to tell us that they are alright.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Outside the center, there were drums, chanting, singing, praying and greetings.\u00a0A First Nations brother generously gave fresh bannock to activists of all ages; he was content to see smiles it brought to their faces.\u00a0Close by, an elder conducted a smudging ceremony to attract good spirits and positive influences.<\/p>\n<p>Among the crowd, I saw a woman crying. I placed my hand on her shoulder to comfort her and was rewarded with a giant hug. The emotions were contagious. We cried, hugged, shared stories and supported each other. We were all there for the same reason.<\/p>\n<p>As the march started, thousands filled the streets, carrying banners, pictures, ribbons, posters and handmade quilts in commemoration of those who were taken from us. While most marchers were aboriginal, many others, of all ethnicities, young and old, marched in solidarity.<\/p>\n<p>The crowd stopped at sites where women were last seen or were found murdered. Each stop was acknowledged by a cedar smudging ceremony. The crowd attracted others who joined the march as it moved along. And just like they do each year, eagles joined the march from above.<\/p>\n<p>The march ended with a candlelight vigil to commemorate the missing and murdered women of the Downtown Eastside.<\/p>\n<p>Being part of this was a great and unforgettable experience.\u00a0It\u2019s a reminder to keep fighting for women\u2019s rights and for justice for our stolen sisters.<\/p>\n<p>Jennifer Ho<br \/>\nRegional Vice-president of the B.C. and Yukon region<br \/>\nUnion of National Employees<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Each year on Valentine\u2019s Day, people smile, hug and greet each other with a joyful \u201cHappy Valentine\u2019s Day!\u201d \u2014 for others,\u00a0it\u2019s a day of heartbreak.\u00a0 For them, February 14 is a day to commemorate their lost loved ones and take part in memorial marches across Canada. This year marks the 21st Women\u2019s Memorial March through &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.unesen.ca\/press\/?p=648\" class=\"more-link\">>><span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;A day of heartbreak&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[7,9,12],"tags":[31,81,156],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.unesen.ca\/press\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/648"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.unesen.ca\/press\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.unesen.ca\/press\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.unesen.ca\/press\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.unesen.ca\/press\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=648"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.unesen.ca\/press\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/648\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.unesen.ca\/press\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=648"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.unesen.ca\/press\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=648"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.unesen.ca\/press\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=648"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}